I have been MIA for a little while. I have been busy with a few things. My aunt and I had a great time. How can you love someone who drives you completely crazy. I love my aunt but she can drive anyone to drink. It is her way all the time. She doesn’t like to hear the words no. Which as an adult and not a child I can say when I want.
She is the type to sit in a store for hours. I am not. I left her in a store and had to pick her up later. I had other things to do. She also feels that if she buys you things you owe her in a way. I don’t play that game at all. I am me period. No matter what you purchase. I didn’t ask you to buy me anything so it is up to you if you do so. I have to say again I do love this woman. But she is very controlling. After the first day or arguing because she wanted to tell me what to do every few minutes we got into a groove and had a great time. The first night she called her son and said I kept yelling at her.
It took her literally two hours to get ready in the morning. We were late. To something she set up for us to do. I never seen someone take two damn hours to wash your ass and get dressed. I was done and sat there for an hour waiting for her. Did I mention I am not the most patient person. She said I am just like my mother. Which I am, we get up get ready and out the door. This is my mother’s twin sister. Every time my mom goes somewhere with her she says “She better not be late and have me waiting”. I called my mom the first day. She said is she acting up yet. So clearly we all know my aunts antics.
We went to the MLK center, acupuncture, met my roommates, Ate out a lot, went shopping. So we did a lot in four days. Then I took Monday off for myself. She said maybe I can come back for acupuncture again. I said it interesting that you come visit 10 years after your last visit. When I no longer have a home and now you have to stay in a hotel. Yes the last time she was here was ten years ago. I never said my family made any kind of sence.
Other than that I went on a date two days ago. Shocking!!! This guy I met in 2008 sent me an email.
I was at a club for a friend’s birthday in 2008. This handsome guy was infatuated with me. The problem I had been he was 5’8. I am six-foot in my flat feet. I had heels on that night which made me 6’2. So I thought it was that short man fetish. Yes short men love me for some reason. He was very persistent, but I blew him off and left the club. Fast forward a few years. He ran into me online. The world is so small with the internet involved. I don’t remember what happened but we talked for a little. I guess I lost interest and that just faded.
Now two days ago. I get an email from him. I was thinking about you. I thought damn I was thinking about him to. Due to the fact now I live on his side of town. I been looking for a friend to hang with until I move. It was his birthday and he wanted to go out to dinner. I told him I felt bad. I really didn’t have the money to take him out to dinner. Wasn’t in my budget. I spent a lot of money with my aunts visit. He said no problem he would take me he wanted the company.
Okay so we had dinner. It was nice. I went for broke and told him my baby plans and the whole deal. He said if you would have given me a chance we could have been married and had our kids right now. Yeah, sounds good but we don’t even know each other. He has a tall girl fetish and that is what is fueling this attention towards me. He isn’t that talkative. But a lot of men are not. I invited him to my friend’s birthday party. She said she needed more men. I thought why not. Then yesterday I text him and asked him if he wanted to go the two dollar movie with me on Sunday. He said yes. Well other than a text I haven’t heard from him.
I never said I didn’t want to be married and have my children that way. I am not going to take just anything to do it. I can get over the height thing. But our personalities need to mesh. Also I am sick of lack of attention from men. So we will see if he puts in the effort or what. I have my plan A. If he want to make himself a strong plan B we will see.
I plan to be out of here in five months. We will see what happens. We make plans god laughs. I guess I need to be more optimistic!!!!